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艾森豪將軍曾有個參謀,經常與他意見相左,看法迥異。有一天,這位參謀決定請辭。艾森豪問他:「為什麼突然要走呢?」參謀老實地回答:「我和你常意見衝突,你大概不喜歡我,與其等著被你開除,還不如自己另謀出路!」

艾森豪聽後很驚訝的說:「你怎麼會有這種想法呢?如果我有個跟我意見一模一樣的參謀,那麼我們兩人當中,不就有一個人是多餘的嗎?這樣有什麼意義呢?」最後,艾森豪把參謀給勸留了下來。

中國人造字頗奇妙,「包容」的「容」底下硬是加上了個大大的「口」字,彷彿叮嚀著世人:「要接納不同意見、不同的聲音、不要只會杜絕眾口,否則將失去許多寶貴的觀點與見解。」一個人會否成功,關鍵不在「力量」,而在「雅量」!能夠理性、冷靜地聆聽不同於自己的意見,也將決定自己日後的成就。

真正無敵的軍隊並非全部的將士都是勇猛無比,而是在於領軍的將帥懂的知人善用,讓各種形形色色的人能在戰場上發揮自己的長才。真正強大的人,也並非在於自己多有智慧或勇武;而是在於聽的進旁人的意見及想法,進而從中思考出更適當的解決方法。

當身邊有人的意見與自己相異時,請不要覺得對方總是在和自己唱反調!每個人的生長環境不同,所思考的方式、角度亦有不同!俗話說:「智者千慮必有一失!」即使再聰明的人,也有自己看不到的死角,想不到的辦法;唯有能容納旁人不同的意見,才能彌補思考上的盲點,讓自己的視野更加寬廣。

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